I was following a Jewish lady on TikTok up till October 7th. When the news broke I figured I didn't want to be in her space so I unfollowed her. It was for my own mental health because I could see where the conversation was going. I didn't want to intrude on her grief and I didn't want to process it either.

We should all be free to exist in our own space and deny access to anyone we choose, for any reason and for any period of time. What we have no right to do is deny anyone their space or their ability to communicate their truth in the public arena so long as they're not violating other people's boundaries.