This is very binary - sorry, something can't be VERY binary - but you appear to have a mindset that can't be challenged. I'm no fan of Tucker (he's a racist) but he is worth listening to sometimes because he's an outlier. Trump was probably the most transparent President of the modern era and told some home truths (of course he's a horrible person and a crook). I find the label 'putinist' to be a little ridiculous. Its purely a derogatory term with no objective reality.

Its good that you have friends in an opposing camp and don't discount them as friends but it doesn't seem like you are hearing them at all.